I use it a lot when asked but I say to anyone that does so this: "The largest handgun you can conceal and carry comfortably all day in the largest caliber you can shoot well."
For a dear person to me it is this:
Smith and Wesson Model 30-1 in .32 long. She is good with it!
Now a greater challenge to defend her life is here. No tools we have at our disposal are useful in this case. No training to be had. This is the part that is the hardest to deal with. Breast cancer and the double mastectomy is scheduled for tomorrow.
I hope you will send your prayers, well wishes, good thoughts, whatever you do in these matters on her behalf.
I will give her another reason to come through this:
If she finds out I put this picture on the interwebz, she will do everything in her power to come through this and kill me =)